sometimes i think about what do i do most of the times....more specifically......why i do things that i do.....as correctly pointed out by my friend...."why" is always harder to answer than "what" or "how".....
so lets delve into the question......why do we do what we do....
is it.....
to achieve a goal???.to meet some requirements???
sleep so that we can have a refreshing day ahead...and again toil the next day with utter honesty so that we can have a peaceful sleep in night.....
doesnt make sense ..does it???
or is it ....
just to fit in the definiton...not ot look odd in the circumstances...... like not talking to a girl the same way as a boy...changing tones and language ...afraid of what everyone might think.....afraid of what she might think.....of what that might make you unfit as a friend for her...as it is odd.....doesnt fit in the definitions, the rules....
again no sense in this....
or is it .....
to make ouselves happy .....chat with friends all day ...... work hard for that sense of achievement..... go home and not inform parents beforehand , just to see mum's eyes twinkled and papa gasping for words as to find what to say for sometime.... to indulge a close friend in all her demands.... sending surprise gifts....
this does make sense....but is this reason enuf....do things to make yourself happy?
so lets delve into the question......why do we do what we do....
is it.....
to achieve a goal???.to meet some requirements???
sleep so that we can have a refreshing day ahead...and again toil the next day with utter honesty so that we can have a peaceful sleep in night.....
doesnt make sense ..does it???
or is it ....
just to fit in the definiton...not ot look odd in the circumstances...... like not talking to a girl the same way as a boy...changing tones and language ...afraid of what everyone might think.....afraid of what she might think.....of what that might make you unfit as a friend for her...as it is odd.....doesnt fit in the definitions, the rules....
again no sense in this....
or is it .....
to make ouselves happy .....chat with friends all day ...... work hard for that sense of achievement..... go home and not inform parents beforehand , just to see mum's eyes twinkled and papa gasping for words as to find what to say for sometime.... to indulge a close friend in all her demands.... sending surprise gifts....
this does make sense....but is this reason enuf....do things to make yourself happy?
so many thoughts flow in mind when i think of this WHY!! it just pauses expression... so best thing i do is i ignore it completely.. :P
ReplyDeleteso many thoughts coming out.....thats the beauty of "why"... now to select one thing out of those so many thoughts is something i aim at achieving here....to clear my thoughts...to move out from this multi faceted confused being to a being which means something....that is the reason i dont ignore "why"...i relish it....because the confusion it creates leads to a genuine result if tread upon properly ....
ReplyDeleteyes.. but that needs a lot of patience and strength.... a lot of time with oneself alone... peacefully!!!its not that simple.... :) :)haina...??
ReplyDeletethings worth achieving are never achieved without strength and perseverance my friend :)
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